Gift certificate shopping spree
April 18, 2011
I have several coaching clients who are dutiful in helping others, but hold back nurturing themselves. Whether it’s a tool that that really need (and would use well) or a massage or special meal that might help them celebrate, guilt or other forces keep them from offering these gifts to themselves. Even naming the things they might want can be difficult.
One way I’ve found to make get past this is to ask my coaching clients to create a set of gift certificates for things / services / experiences they want. For example, “I’d never get a massage, but it sure would be nice to have a gift certificate for one.”
The homework assignment is to generate those 12 or 20 gift certificates. This puts it right on the table. My clients may or may not cash in their fake gift certificates, but they have the experience of being much closer to taking something that they really feel would be positive, and, in so doing, to be nurturing themselves.